One married guy asked me, “What’s Happiness?” I said, “I don’t know, I
am married too.”
He laughed out loud,
but my wife looked at me like I am some alien. After a few hours, as I stepped
inside home with her, I knew that I am in trouble, and it’s time to be a
politician. She asked me, “What was so funny about that? You insulted me.” I
replied with mellifluous smile, “No baby, it’s just a simple joke. I didn’t
mean that.”
I truly didn’t mean
that. I knew that the other married guy also took it as a joke. Because, guys
normally talk like this.
But, my wife was not in
a mood to believe me. So, I decided to explain.
I swear. I was
explaining in the sweetest way, although some anger was boiling inside me, she
suddenly stopped me and said, “I got that part. And, don’t shout while
explaining, otherwise I don’t want to hear you.”
I was shocked that how
she detected my anger. But, I controlled myself and tried to use my expertise
for watering down her temperature. “Baby, I love you. I didn’t mean to hurt
you. I won’t do that again, I promise. I am sorry.” I hugged her tightly, and
kissed her.
And, thanks to God, the
matter was resolved right on the spot.
That day I got that
men’s sense of humor is completely different than women’s sense of humor. The
jokes I use with men can’t be used by women. There is a huge difference between
personalities and nature. Men can even laugh without any reason (It doesn’t
mean we are stupid, we just live every moment), but women need some strong
reason to laugh out loud.
I give you an example
that will evince you that men’s sense of humor is completely different than
women’s sense of humor.
I: Baby, I tell you a
joke?
She: Yes.
I: Once a stupid man
held her girlfriend’s hand while driving from LA to California. His girlfriend
smiled and said, ‘You can go further’... And, he drove to San Francisco.
(I laughed out loud
while telling this joke)
She asked with a
serious face: Ok, but why were they driving to California at first place?
What’s so special there?
I looked at her with
confusing eyes, I knew my joke has been killed.
Movie Directors and
Comedians know this secret very well. They know that men and women perceive
jokes so differently. For making a woman laugh, they create mental pictures,
feelings, and relations that the joke indicate. And, for making a man laugh,
they use surprising punch lines, silly activities, and negative situations.
Do you know that
negative content is favorite for making a guy laugh? But, when we use the same
negative content for creating comedy with women, we always get cold reactions.
Because, women associate negativity with frustration, anger, and pain.
You Don’t Need To Crack
Jokes
Humor is a masculine
thing. Men don’t want you to be funny. I know it would be startling for you to
know that, men don’t want a funny woman in their lives, but it’s the truth.
Many studies, and researches, have proved that men would love to have a
one-night-stand, or a short term relationship, with a funny woman, but for a
long-term relationship, they would avoid such woman.
Most men agree that
they find a sense of humor attractive in women. But, when you ask them if they
will marry a funny woman, their answer will be resounding “NO”.
If you ask me, it was
an interesting discovery for me too. I was not getting what do men actually
want in a woman? What do they consider funny in a woman?
I read hundreds of
books and hundreds of researches for understanding the true psychology of men.
I asked the above questions from hundreds of men too. And, luckily, I garnered
the true answer.
I came to know that, if
you want to be a funny woman, you don’t have to crack jokes.
Instead, “You
only need to focus on improving your silly, fun, wild activities.”
Gales of Laughter
Want to bust him into
gales of laughter? Do silly, fun, wild activities. Let your man go on talking
with his friends about sports and games, you read these below tips and apply
them into your day-to-day life for making him realize that you are the most
interesting and fun woman on this planet. I bet, you will be amazed at the
power you hold.
But, before I begin,
it’s necessary to mention one superb quote of Aristotle – A Greek philosopher
and teacher of Alexander the Great.
“The secret to humor is
surprise.”
If you will do silly,
wild, fun acts as a surprise, you will hypnotize him utterly. He’ll be lost in
your charm, he’ll fall in love with you, and he’ll wish to keep you as his wife
forever. Surprise is the only thing that has the power to turn ordinary into
extraordinary. So, keep your moves as surprising for him as you can.
(a) Sing a song while
taking a shower, or wake him up in the morning while singing playfully. You can
sing his favorite song in a very bad voice for teasing him too. He’ll laugh and
enjoy it.
(b) Don’t look at him
for an entire day. Stay with him, hug him, kiss him. But, don’t make an eye
contact. This will bring moments of laughs. He’ll ask you what happened. He’ll
try to make eye contact with you forcefully.
(c) Wear shortest
skirts and tall boots. Handcuff him and dance seductively. That’s wild, but
it’ll bring his excitement on peak. In addition, you can use crazy wigs
(different colors & different styles) for touching a higher level of
role-playing. Plus, you can use cowboy hat too while dancing playfully... Be as
creative as you can. It’s fun, wild, and sexy.
(d) Men find your few
acts very funny and interesting. In other words, they fall in love with you
when you do them. For example, men love when you show your ‘Unshakable Faith’.
They love when you tell them you don’t want them to die. They love when you
watch sports and make sex with them right after their favorite team’s victory.
They love when you wear something belong to them... These are silly and fun
acts, but men love it completely.
(e) Wear red lipstick
and slather his face with your kisses before he wakes up.
(f) Want to be a
‘Fashion Model’? Do a fashion show. Ask for his reviews about your dresses and
shoes. Walk playfully like a model in front of him. He’ll smile all the way and
wait for you to finish the fashion show so that he can pick you up in his arms
and take you to bed.
Your wild, silly, fun
acts make us laugh and help us to escape from unwanted thoughts and emotions.
You have no idea how much attractive and interesting you look to us. We feel
like making this world a heaven for you...
Author:
Bill Hamilton is a BIG thinker. He loves coming up with new
ideas and figuring out how to apply them. He works with individuals, couples,
and entrepreneurs to help them accomplish their ambitions.
Want to learn more from Bill Hamilton? Get "21 Crazy Ways to
Create Attraction" at his blog: http://www.beingelite.com/
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