You got attracted to this girl and she made you to have sleepless nights... you know how it feels when you are in love. So, you gathered the courage and asked her out on date. By the way, did she play hard to get? Girls in general will play hard to get. They play hard to get so that they avoid creating an impression of being loose. On the other hand guys like it when they chase a girl who challenges them. Playing hard to get is part of dating process that makes dating to be interesting.
However, a woman should not go overboard playing too hard to get as the guy will get tired and give up chasing after her. Once the first date is successful the next step is to date her for the second time. After the second date your relationship takes another direction. You get to know one another and you start discovering what your girlfriend likes and what she doesn't like. In other words you are courting her. During the courtship stage she is looking forward to the day you will surprise her by going down on your knee, produce an engagement ring and ask her the big question, "Will you marry me?"
How long should your courtship last? There is no universal agreed period that courtship should take. Some people argue that once partners know each other they should take the next step... get married. But knowing your partner may take a longer period and courtship will not make you to know everything about your partner because during courtship your partner will only try to behave in a way that is good thus not revealing the behaviors that are likely to get on your nerves such as nagging and being needy. You can court each other as long as you wish but it is not good that you court your girlfriend for a very long period of time.
How long should your courtship last? There is no universal agreed period that courtship should take. Some people argue that once partners know each other they should take the next step... get married. But knowing your partner may take a longer period and courtship will not make you to know everything about your partner because during courtship your partner will only try to behave in a way that is good thus not revealing the behaviors that are likely to get on your nerves such as nagging and being needy. You can court each other as long as you wish but it is not good that you court your girlfriend for a very long period of time.
It is the duty of a man to propose to a woman and not the other way round. However, these days women know what they want and they go for it. Therefore you will not be surprised to hear stories about women who have proposed to their boyfriends and actually they got married.
Are you wondering how you will propose to your girlfriend? There are many ways that you can use to propose to her. It is not a difficult thing to do. With proper planning you will be able to give your girlfriend a romantic proposal that she will live to remember and tell people about it.
What You Should Consider Before You Propose to Her
1. You Should Not Rush To Propose
Do not rush to propose to your girlfriend. You should instead take your time to plan well.
You need your creativity to make the proposal a romantic one. Let your girlfriend feel your romance while you propose to her. Your proposal should be the one that makes her find an interesting story to tell her friends and those who will be asking her to narrate how you proposed to her. For instance, you can propose to her during Valentine's Day, a special day that provides an opportunity to be romantic.
2. Keep the Proposal a Secret
The day you have planned to propose to your girlfriend should be your secret. A secret is never known by any other person except you alone who is keeping that secret. It will be a boring proposal if you leak information about your plan of proposing to your girlfriend and your girlfriend learns about it. Your proposal should surprise her since the proposal is a very special moment in her life that she has been longing for all along.
3. The Correct Size of Engagement Ring
Do you know the correct size of her ring finger before you even think of proposing to her? Imagine how disappointed you will be when you go down on your knee to propose to her and when she accepts your proposal you give her a ring that doesn't fit her finger. Before you buy the engagement ring get the correct size of her ring finger.
4. A Public or a Private Proposal
Try to find out whether she will like you to propose to her in public or in place where the two of you are alone. Although throwing a party and inviting your friends and her friends in order to surprise her with your proposal in front of them may seem to be a good idea, you should however consider if she prefers privacy. Your girlfriend might get embarrassed and fail to know how to react if you go public with your proposal especially if she is too sensitive about her privacy.
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The author of this article is Daisy M Bruce a team member of Nikenya, a website where you can read articles submitted by people from all walks of life about the contentious issue of all the time.
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