When the Man You Are Dating, Dumps You - Will You Know It?

The answer to my question should be obviously, a simple yes, but is it always that easy? Women are very aware that men hate confrontation, especially, when there is "trouble in paradise"; they try to get away from having to explain themselves, or talk about anything that has to do with feelings, romance or relationships. So when it comes to breaking up, they usually give you the runaround for as long as they are able to and leave us ladies who love them, scratching our heads and wondering: "what is going on?" Let me show you a few of the most amusing examples of what they would say to soften the blow and how to spot the signs before it happens to you.

1_ "YOU KNOW, I NEED SOME TIME... TO THINK... JUST FOR A WHILE... A COUPLE OF WEEKS?... OR MAYBE A MONTH?... YES, A MONTH WOULD BE BETTER... " If you ask him why, he would say: "OH THERE'S NOTHING WRONG SWEETIE... I AM JUST KIND OF A LITTLE CONFUSED AND HAVING SOME TIME TO MYSELF... I KNOW IT WILL HELP ME CLEAR THINGS OUT... SWEETIE" 

And there you are, scratching your head!

Honey, in reality, he is definitely breaking up with you!

This one is a doozy:

2_ "IS IT ONLY ME OR DO YOU ALSO FEEL THAT IT WOULD BE A GOOD IDEA TO START SEEING OTHER PEOPLE? (I can assure you that by this time, he's already seeing other women, BIG TIME) he continues... WELL... I DON'T MEAN RIGHT AWAY... BUT MAYBE IN A FEW DAYS?"

If you are just standing there trying to drink it all in and make any sense of it... let me make it easier for you... he is breaking up with you!

And this last one is my favorite:

3_ "BABY... I DON'T DESERVE YOU... YOU ARE ALWAYS SO GOOD TO ME (... you gaze tenderly into his eyes... ) he continues... AND YOU KNOW, I HAVEN'T BEEN ANY GOOD TO YOU... AT ALL... EVER!... REALLY... NOT ONE TIME! (there's silence for a few seconds and then he goes for the punch line... ) HAVE YOU EVER THOUGHT THAT MAYBE YOU COULD FIND SOMEONE BETTER?... I'M JUST ASKING... AND WONDERING... "

Oh girlfriend... he's not being straight forward, because he is totally breaking up with you!

If you are a man reading this article, you know how true this is and if you are a woman, you know it even more, because sometime, somewhere, during your lifetime, this happened to you or to someone you know.

So how can you tell when your man is trying to end your relationship?

Well, always remember what I'm about to tell you: when you're romantically involved with a man, always keep your eyes wide open to see everything that is going on and your ears tuned in to listen to every word that it is said between you two. And the moment you start seeing the slightest change in his behavior, or he starts making comments that would potentially put some distance between you two, beware, because he most likely is trying to go BYE BYE.

What is my advice?

If he cannot be mature enough to say what's in his heart, then you need to step up, be the grownup and insist on honesty from him. To put him at ease, you can also assure him that no matter what, you will be OK.

And this is the outcome: YOU WILL BE OK! YOU WILL BE FABULOUS! YOU WILL FIND THE RIGHT MAN! BELIEVE THAT YOUR SOUL MATE IS WAITING FOR YOU. Put yourself out there, be yourself, be confident and be a woman of power. Romance is just around the corner. Love is within your grasp.

My name is Leda P. and I am a "romance consultant" for women and men who want dating advice and to help put a smile in everyone's faces, I do it all with some humor.

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