Who else is going through some relationship insecurity? Are you starting to doubt whether or not your man really loves you as much as you do him? Or maybe you are starting to find yourself getting jealous for reasons you aren't entirely sure are real? Maybe your relationship brings out the WORST qualities in you as a result... and starts forcing you to question yourself, and your self worth, and your ability to even "be loved" at all?
The simple truth is, for millions of women... if you are in a relationship that does NOT have equal reciprocity and emotional clarity of communication, there is a long downward spiral of self doubt and fear that if you're not careful... CAN have long lasting and disastrous results.
In my own life, as a relationship author and coach, as well as an emotional intuitive, I often see women who begin with just a little bit of a crack or a crease of uncertainty... and watch as that little bit of doubt blooms and blossoms into a full blown crisis or catastrophe.
And the real unfortunate thing is, when one relationship breaks off unexpectedly, or leaves one party surprised and shocked at the quickness of it's end... it can have long lasting, often incredibly destructive and ultimately life changing effects on YOUR ability to love again in the future. (Or worse still, the ability to actually BE loved, something that you truly must manifest and cultivate if you want the real deal and authentic emotion, and something that's impossible to "earn" if you are constantly worried about being left behind... yet again).
Okay - with that being said, the simple truth is THIS:
There ARE very simple, very straightforward and very easy ways to understand exactly what your man feels about you, and using that information to make good life decisions for yourself going forward.
Let's look at a few of them:
1 - How jealous is he? How possessive is he? How closely does he keep his eyes on you... when you move away from his orbit?
The truth is, while jealousy is really NOT a great quality in a man, it IS in fact, one of the most simple signs that he is emotionally invested in both YOU, and the relationship. Simply stated, a man who is NOT in love with you... is NOT going to be authentically jealous or interested in where you are, and who you are with. He may be ego attached to where you are, but he won't be authentically and emotionally invested in worrying about what you are doing when you are not around. In some respects, when wearing my "intuitive" hat, the more emotional energy I see i the aura of a man around jealousy... the more I can tell how much he really cares about the woman he's with.
2 - Understand the karma of your connection. Do you feel one? Does there seem to be a serendipity or a "reason why" you are together that defies logic? Often times my readers will tell me crazy cool stories about how they met their man... and the various things they went through to sort of make the relationship work. These are often the BIGGEST and best signs that a man is the RIGHT one for you... and that there are strings in the fabric of your life that are being pulled to keep you together, even now. And while this may SOUND like ti's a bit too spiritual or new age for many, the simple truth is, I've seen it with hundreds and hundreds of couples: The more they feel like they are meant and DESTINED to be together, the more underlying long lasting love there is between them, even when YOU wonder about it the most.
Lastly, I'll leave you with this:
I believe that every single relationship you have is meant to serve a purpose. And that every person comes into your life to add to the puzzle that is YOUR life. There is never a need to grieve, or fear, or languish in depression when the unexpected happens, because the simple truth is, there are no unexpected happenings...) It may sound trite... but it's true: Everything happens for a reason. And each of us has a perfect partner. Trust in THAT... and let your spirit lead the way.
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