If you are a married couple, you are probably aware of the fact already that things can start to get stale at times; in fact, you may even think that "stale" is too tame a word for the way things can get - and this can be true for the way women feel just as much as it is for the way men feel (after all, women enjoy sex as well!). What many married couples never end up realizing, however, is that there is no reason why this has to be the case - not at all, in fact; when you know the little things you can do to spice up your relationship and to keep your sex life hot, you can ensure that you are not just the envy of other married couples, but are the envy of even newlyweds!
Make an effort: One of the best ways to ensure the two of you keep your sex life as hot as you want it to be is by both making a conscious effort to create a zesty sex life - and part of this, of course, is for each of you to take care of your bodies; when you exercise, you will not only feel good about yourself and keep yourself looking great, but you will also release testosterone and endorphins that increase your sex drive, causing your desire to remain intimate with one another to increase.
Deepen your connection: The deeper the emotional connection between two people, the more these two people are likely to find they are enjoying the sex; keep in mind the fact that your relationship is as much about the emotional connection as anything else, and make an effort - every day - to become more emotionally connected, as this will make your relationship that much better, and will also make the sex that much better, in the long run.
Try new things: And of course, the simple fact that things have "gotten boring" is one of the big reasons why married couples eventually get to a place where they no longer feel as intimate with one another - and if a couple continues doing the same things over and over again, "boring" is easy to achieve; if, on the other hand, you and your mate keep spicing things up - trying different things and remaining adventurous in the bedroom (or in whatever room you choose to get intimate in!), things will continue to be fun and new.
Deepen your connection: The deeper the emotional connection between two people, the more these two people are likely to find they are enjoying the sex; keep in mind the fact that your relationship is as much about the emotional connection as anything else, and make an effort - every day - to become more emotionally connected, as this will make your relationship that much better, and will also make the sex that much better, in the long run.
Try new things: And of course, the simple fact that things have "gotten boring" is one of the big reasons why married couples eventually get to a place where they no longer feel as intimate with one another - and if a couple continues doing the same things over and over again, "boring" is easy to achieve; if, on the other hand, you and your mate keep spicing things up - trying different things and remaining adventurous in the bedroom (or in whatever room you choose to get intimate in!), things will continue to be fun and new.
Allowing your marriage to reach a place where it has become boring and stale is certainly easy - but it is nearly as easy to instead keep your marriage spicy and fun, and of course, this is a lot more enjoyable! Follow these three tips, and keep your eyes open for other tips, and you will have no problem keeping your married sex life exciting and fun, even as the years go by!
If you are keeping your eyes open for more tips, be sure to visit http://orgasmiclovemaking.com - and keep your sex life spicy!
~Yves Mathis
Keep your sex life fun!
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